Were all grown ups ugly,gawky and foolish lookin when they were kids..?i know loads of them who weren't...i know some of them who were..one of them being ME..! ugly may jus be too strong a word to use..but gawky and foolish lookin , u bet i was...and if u ask my friends about it,they'l tell you that i haven't changed much since then..;)
but i tell u wat, if u are feeling low or say things are not working in our favour...i hav an amazing solution for that...Go look for one of your old school albums...Relive each one of those moments again through those pictures...trust me not only will it bring a huge smile on your face, but will relieve you of all the tension and worries and make u feel better about yourself and the person that u hav become....

I,for one, would like to believe thatt i had an 'almost' perfect childhood...been there, done that..:)as i mentioned earlier i wasn't a very pretty looking kid in school..infact i clearly remember this one incident where this guy who had a huge crush on me asked me out and my only reply to that was..."huh...of all the girls in school u like me..?" Poor guy u should've seen the look on his face it was hilarious....i learnt the tactics of better ways of refusal later in life...:)But thats probably the only problem i faced as a kid...low self esteem...but mind you that never deterred me from havin crushes on a million guys.{i don even remember the names of some of them!;)}.....
but nevertheless being a kid is probably the most fulfilling experience of one's life....i hav genuinely experienced it all...

from being an A grade student to becoming a 70 percenter in coll{ nothing to brag about, i agree!}..from singing carols at midnight during christmas to later developing the most husky hoarse voice a girl can have {risi would agree :)}...from being this petite feminine 9th grader to becoming 'Charlie chaplin' in the most happening costume party ever{chung this ones for ya..!}...from being slapped for the first time(n hopefully the last!) in the 5th grade for not doing my sanskrit homework to thumping ' we will rock you' beats on the benches during physics class.....from being a sober play safe sort of a girl to later developing the bold "sir,if u throw sulu out, u gotta throw me out too" kind of an attitude...

well i genuinely hav seen it all...but wat i miss the most about being a kid is the naivety and the innocence...i may hav turned 20 but i'm not sure if i've really grown up in my head...and somewhere down the line i think it has been a conscious effort to keep the kid in me alive....i guess thats the only way to live life to the fullest..only then can one enjoy and be amused at the lil joys of life...

So don be in a hurry to grow up....make the most of the time u hav now....
for growing up is a natural process that never ceases...
but the kid in u may die even before u realize it......

i wish....

i wish i could hold on to u and say its all ok....
i wish i could take away all your pain....
i wish i could put my head on ur lap and cry my heart out....
i wish i could wipe every drop that falls off ur lil eyes...
i wish i could be ur strength and not ur weakness....
i wish i could give u my share of happiness....
i wish my love was enough to make it all go.....
i wish.......

For the one i love.....

You know u are in love ....

-when just a 'love u' can brighten up your entire day

-when u start including him/her in your prayers...

-when u look for chances to hold hands in a crowded room..

-when those five-hour long calls seem like seconds...

-when u have a bad fight,the worlds seems to hav come to a standstill...

-when u wanna buy her the world even if u cant afford it..!

-when u start missin each other even after spending the entire day together..

-when u wanna protect her from the rest of the world..

-when u say a million 'sorry s' without knowing whose mistake it was in the first place

-when after a hard day,jus her smile makes u feel like the world is not that bad a place after all...

-when eveything u say has the potential to cause ur beloved immense joy or sorrow

-when u wake up each morming filled with gratitude that u hav another day to love and enjoy your partner......

life has this wierd way of spinging up surprises ...especially when u least expect it....
those really unpredictable , absolutely uncalled for , unforeseen , 'i'm gonna hit u hard' kind of surprises...
i know i talk a lot about life in my blogs..but can u blame me for it..
just when i thought that i knew where my life is heading..and what is in store for me...
there it was, this huge ball of surprise,shocker i would say, comin my way..
and before i knew it..BANG..!!

but u know what, everytime something like this happens, be assured that there is a hidden message behind it...a lesson of sorts...and try not to miss it...
trust me life teaches u lesson almost everyday...
For eg..the other day i went for this terribly stupid movie called
'metro'...and i regreted goin for it big time..
now u may wonder what is the message behind this..
well its simple...Read the review of the movie u are goin for 'Before' watching it...u will save urself the time ,money and torture of sittin through a bad film.... now ain't that terribly simple.?

The above eg may sound very petty and trivial to u but nevertheless u can't deny the fact there was a lesson to be learnt...
talkin of bigger things in life, like the shocker that hit me....the message behind that is bigger, more profound, more thought-provoking....
what i learnt was that...NEVER give up on life....Hav faith....if things are going terribly wrong tell yourself that there is something BETTER in store for u.....that u deserve something better...

Tell yourself.....'This too shall pass...'

trust me it works wonders....

well its been almost a month since i updated my blog.....and the only reason i can give for my hibernation is ..plain laziness..was just too lazy to get myself to sit in front of the comp and talk about something that i wanna share with the rest of u..dats the typical 'too lazy to move my ass 'attitude of mine ( for those who don know me well) n its worked great for me all these years ;) i shall elaborate on that later....anyway as for bloggin,better late than never.....

life has been pretty stable since i blogged last...smooth i would say...and i've been enjoin every bit of it to the hilt... y cant life be this way always...no bumps..n so very predictable.....wake up however late u wish to..eat whatever u wan...skip meals whenever u wan (dis is undoubetdly THE best part ;))....spend the entire day watchin movies, havin chilled mango colada,sittin on the bike wit wind flying thru ur hair....wow feels like heaven... oh well , ENJOY WHILE IT LASTS....

Anyway i'm mega mega excited today...i cant believe they actually starting wit 'Old Skool' on Zee Cafe.....The Wonder Years..Dowgie Howser...Who's the boss..Ally Mcbeal...i mean it seriously cant get better than this...and i'm so kicked about it...i personally believe dat out of the two Best things that has happened to television world over, one of it definitely has to be THE WONDER YEARS...(the second ,of course being, FRIENDS)..this show was such an integral part of my growing years that i seriously cant imagine my childhood without it....(it may seem like an exaggeration but do i look like i care..?)....and watching the reruns of it is like 'reliving the magic of pure unadulterated childhood'.....

well so now i have one more thing included in my 'feels like heaven' list....

well all those who'd read my last blog must've got a decent picture of what i was trying to say... basically in the pursuit for bigger and better things in life we often tend to overlook and ignore the simpler things in life that give us so much joy...well after reading the book,i decided to contribute a few instructions of my own....whatever lil i've learnt and observed in these 20 years....and with this , i would also wan everybody readin this blog to contribute a few of their own....its damn simple...we can actually make our own volume of Life's little instruction book....:)

here is wat i hace to say..
1.Don't judge people by the way they dress.Appearances are often deceptive.
2.Thank God everyday for all that He's given u.
3.Get into the habit of reading.Besides improving your vocabulary,it'l also improve your thinking.
4.Keep your promises.
5.make friends who like u for the way u are, not how they would want u to be.
6.always appreciate your mother when u know she's taken great effort to make the dish for you.
7.when u say 'i love u' , mean it.
8.Remember a good sense of humour adds spice to life
9.include your family in your prayers.
10.when adults are sick, care for them as though they were kids.

hmm so thats for now...now ur turn..:) think and contribute.....